We long for loving relationships and we are unsuccessful in having them because we have patterns of relating that cause us and our loved ones hurt and pain. These patterns are not who we are. They are behavior that we learned as we grew up in our families. What we have learned, we can unlearn. I can help you to uncover the underlying causes of your relationship problems, and change those patterns. Then you can stop reacting automatically from your past . I can help you to work through your pain and problems from your family of origin or other dysfunctional or traumatic history.